The Difference between Judgement and Opinion

Lately, as I have been writing my first book and considering choice and vulnerability, I’ve been thinking about ‘judgement’ and ‘opinion’. As I was considering how I hold the meanings of these words especially as they pertain to my life and my history and my choices, I went to the dictionary for the standard meanings of the words. I’ve noticed that there is an overlap in the accepted meanings of these words, an overlap that I’ve also held in my personal lexicon.

‘Judgement’, as a concept, seems to be particularly coupled with actions taken and words spoken. It suggests assessing and forming a critical decision based upon whatever evidence we have. There is a presupposition of wisdom and measured decision making based upon the best possible evidence available to us especially in anything regarding action and ‘good’ sense. It implies authority to settle matters and make decrees. There is a sense of certainty with judgement. Judgements are rendered. They are published. They are public. There is always as sense of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’, ‘good’ or ‘bad’. There is an external reference attached to the concept of judgement.

And yet there is also the possibility for the decisions we make or the decrees we pass to be affected by guessing and estimating and conclusions which we draw from our personal understanding of the information which we have. While most of us would hold that judgement implies sagacity and objectively made decisions, there is still, however small it might be, a personal and subjective element.

The main thing that we do come to believe in our lives is that judgement is ‘impersonal’. And we hold judgements as immutable. Once made, they cannot be changed. There is a sense of a ‘sentence passed’. We believe that whoever passes judgement on what we do or say or who we are, has the authority to do that. And we believe the judgements which are passed on us without question. In accepting this, we abdicate our personal autonomy.

‘Opinion’, on the other hand, is something which we generally hold as being very different. For most of us, opinion is coupled with assessment of character and merit and being worthy of esteem or consideration. There is an aspect of judging tied to opinion. Yet, that judgement, we believe, is made without sufficient evidence to produce complete certainty. Opinion is personal and subjective and is not grounded in hard evidence. It is coloured by our own beliefs, values and attitudes.

We tend to believe that opinions are suspect because they are not formed from ‘just the facts’. We say, “That’s your opinion”, implying that we do not agree. In forming and holding our opinions, we are making judgements. And we do not believe that others must agree with us [although it would be nice]. Nor do we believe that we are holding our beliefs as being ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ [even if we really believe that we are right]. We simply accept that we have our own opinions. They are ours. They are internally referenced.

Judgements are public. Opinions are private. We can hold our own opinions and there is no expectation that we must share these with others. When we own our opinions, we own our personal truth. When we share our opinions with others, we may, perhaps, feel a sense of validation from others if they agree with us. Yet, if others don’t agree or don’t share the same opinion, we don’t usually drop what we believe.

The thing that I do know is that if we don’t share our opinions, we can get trapped in our past. The potential for us to become self-righteous is immense. We can come to believe that we are ‘right’ and the rest of the world is ‘wrong’. And that’s the trap.

It takes courage to share what we believe with others. When we do that, we have to reveal ourselves to them – all our lumps, and bumps, and dark places; all our hurts and disappointments. And in revealing ourselves, we may have to take a hard look at ourselves and own, in ourselves, what we might not accept in others. And then our world, which we might have believed was built on bedrock, might reveal itself to us as being built on quicksand. And that can be scary.

In sharing ourselves with others, we may feel unsafe and very vulnerable. It takes courage and trust in our personal truth and in the goodwill of those who want the best for us. And in being willing to be open, clear, direct and true to ourSelves, we will no longer be held captive.

Interesting that owning our truth and sharing ourSelves – feeling vulnerable, can be such a profound portal to our continued evolution as godforces in human form.

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About Authentic Vibrations

My life is about learning and personal growth. I was an educator in the public secondary system for over 33 years. I now work with women, individually and in small groups, using words and music, art and language to help them explore their individaul sense of self in ways with are authentically meaningful for each of them. I also facilitate discussions with educators at all stages of their involvement in the teaching profession to help each of us explore the meaning, value and potential of learning and teaching. It is my belief that, in working individually and in collective, we have the power to transform and evolve. In the power of the collectives which we create together is the power to create culture. As a musician, I believe that the arts have the power to change lives. Certification: CODE Model™ Coach WEL-Systems® Institute Affiliate Education: Ed. D (c) (Applied Psychology – Focus on Teaching) University of Toronto M. Ed (Curriculum Development and Design) Queen’s University (1992) B. Ed (Music, English, Elementary Education) University of Toronto (1976) Mus. Bac. (Music Education) University of Toronto (1975) RCM Grade 4 Harmony, Grade 4 History, Grade 9 Voice, Grade 10 Piano Awards: Life Membership, Ontario Secondary School Teacher’s Federation (2009)
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2 Responses to The Difference between Judgement and Opinion

  1. Pingback: The Difference between Judgement and Opinion | Engage WEL-Systems

  2. ig says:

    You made some good points there. I checked on the net to learn more about the issue and found most people will go along with your
    views on this website.

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